Read this before you ever email me.

Who I see

I see respectful, self-aware adults who understand discretion. I don't discriminate based on body type, race, gender, sex, or experience level — men, women, non-binary people, couples, and groups are all welcome. What matters most is attitude.

• • You are at least 21 years old.
• • You are grounded and capable of making your own decisions.
• • You communicate clearly, read instructions, and respect boundaries.
• • You are not booking on behalf of someone who hasn't seen this site.

Communication & booking

Your first message is your first impression. Read through My entire website before reaching out.

• • Introduce yourself: name, pronouns, age, and city.
• • Tell me what you're looking for in clear, full sentences, and be honest about your experience, nerves, or questions.
• • Include possible dates, times, and the session length you want.
• • No one-word messages, unsolicited explicit photos, or "u available?" / "u free?" / "?" openers.
• • I don't respond to rude, demanding, impatient, chaotic, or substandard messages.

Showing up

Show up like someone who respects themselves and the person they're meeting. This is non-negotiable.

• • Be on time — early beats late. If you're genuinely running behind, tell me as soon as you can.
• • Arrive freshly showered, with clean hair, nails, and breath.
• • Wear deodorant, but skip overpowering cologne or body spray.
• • Coming straight from the gym, work, or a long day? Shower first, unless we've agreed otherwise.
• • Arrive sober and clear-headed — I don't meet anyone visibly intoxicated or under the influence of hard drugs.
• • Have the remaining balance ready in the agreed form at the start, if it isn't already paid.
• • If you show up visibly unclean, heavily scented, or intoxicated, I may end our time immediately.

During our time together

Yes, I'm dominant — that doesn't mean I ignore consent or basic respect. I bring intensity, presence, and control; your job is to settle into what we discussed, speak up when you need to, and let yourself enjoy it.

• • You are allowed limits, boundaries, and a voice — use them. Any agreed-upon safeword is always respected.
• • Respect my boundaries, pace, and decisions in the moment.
• • If I ask you something, answer honestly. If something doesn't feel right, say so — I prefer clarity over guessing.
• • Phones stay away unless we've agreed on something specific.
• • Any fantasy degradation or humiliation is discussed in advance. Nerves and awkwardness are fine — I find them cute.
• • If I correct you on a term, a boundary, or a behavior, adjust without arguing.
• • I won't do anything unsafe, disrespectful, or outside my limits, and I'll end our time if I ever feel uncomfortable.

I'm here to explore power, not cruelty or prejudice — I enjoy control and power dynamics, not chaos or harm. Keep it hot, not hateful. I take the lead within the container we've agreed to.

Discretion & respect

Discretion protects both of us. I keep your information private and expect the same in return.

• • Don't share my personal details, photos, or anything from our time together.
• • Recording, screenshots, and hidden cameras are strictly forbidden and mean a lifetime ban.
• • Don't discuss our arrangement with anyone who hasn't consented to hearing it.
• • Any attempt to pressure, blackmail, or manipulate me ends all contact permanently.

Aftercare, gratitude & follow-up

Intense power dynamics can linger — that's part of the fun and part of the care.

• • You're welcome to send a brief follow-up afterward; if something sits wrong with you, tell me.
• • If we both enjoyed ourselves and you behaved well, I'm more likely to see you again.

None of what follows is required, but if you're wondering what's appreciated:

• • A genuine "thank you, I had an amazing time" goes a long way.
• • Tips are never expected, always appreciated.
• • Thoughtful, discreet gifts are welcome if they suit you — my wishlist is here.
• • A positive review helps if you're a premium RentMen user, and if you're comfortable, I'm happy to share your thoughts on my Bluesky.

Automatic dealbreakers

If any of these apply, don't contact me. If they show up later, I disappear.

• • Lying about your age, relationship status, or who you are.
• • Disrespect, name-calling, or entitlement.
• • Ignoring instructions, or haggling over rates and pushing for "extras" after we've agreed.
• • Any aggression, harassment, or boundary-pushing after I've said no.
• • Showing up intoxicated, unsafe, or clearly unprepared.
• • Being rude to staff, drivers, or anyone around us — including animals.

If this all feels obvious and easy — and you still feel drawn in — that's a good sign. Head to the Prices page next.