Screening · Safety · Health
Simple, health-focused screening.
Before we meet, you'll go through a brief screening process. It's straightforward and non-negotiable.
What I require
You can send over the following with your introduction, or wait until we've spoken:
Recent STI test results
You'll send clear screenshot(s) or PDF(s) of your most recent panel from a legitimate clinic or testing service. It needs to be current, not something from years ago. Multi-site testing — genital, throat, and rectal is required where applicable.
The panel must include results for:
- HIV
- Syphilis
- Chlamydia
- Gonorrhea
- Hepatitis B — recent negative result, or documentation of vaccination/immunity
- Hepatitis C
- Trichomoniasis
You may redact anything irrelevant, but the date, your name, and the results must remain visible. For Hepatitis B, if your provider didn't include it on your panel because you're vaccinated or immune, send proof of that instead — a vaccination record or an immunity result (positive Anti-HBs) works.
Ability to follow instructions
How you handle screening tells me a lot. If you ignore questions, directions, play games, or try to negotiate the process, I won't move forward.
If you're serious, respectful, and can follow instructions, this will be quick and straightforward.
At my discretion
In some cases, I ask for more verification — especially for longer engagements or travel. That might include:
- LinkedIn profile or work website
- Social media
- A brief call or video check-in
- Light ID verification (e.g., driver's license or passport with non-essential details redacted)
This is decided on a case-by-case basis, at my discretion. I only ask for what I need to feel safe. If that feels like too much for you, it just means we're not a fit.
Why screening?
Screening is about safety, respect, and mutual health. I take my body and well-being seriously, and I expect the same from anyone who wants to share space with me. It's also about showing basic care for the wider community we're part of.
If you're genuinely interested in meeting, this won't feel like a hurdle — it will feel like a sign you're being handled with care, and more like a relief than a burden.
If you're still here and are itching to meet me, its time for your last stop: Book Me