Booking · Contact · Next Steps
Ready to book? Follow this exactly.
If you’ve read Rules, Prices, Screening, and Etiquette and still feel drawn in, this is how you contact me. I pay close attention to detail — how you handle this page tells me a lot.
Initial contact is by email only. Other options may come later, but this first step is non-negotiable.
How to contact me
Use a respectful tone and follow the structure below. Messages that ignore it or try to work around my process get deleted.
Email for booking
Address: mxleomars@protonmail.com
If privacy matters to you (it should), consider a provider like ProtonMail or a dedicated email account you don’t share.
Use an email subject line like:
Booking Inquiry – [Your First Name] – [City / Location]
Email template you can copy
Adjust the wording if you like, but don’t skip sections.
Hi Leo,
My name is [First Name], I’m [age] and based in [city]. I found you via [where you found me].
I’m interested in booking [length of time] in [city you want to see me in] on [preferred date(s) and general time window].
I’m looking for: [a few sentences or paragraphs about what you’re hoping for, any relevant interests or limits, and your experience level].
I’ve read your Screening page and am prepared to provide recent STI / STD results and follow your instructions. I’ve also read your Rules and Etiquette pages and I’m comfortable with your expectations.
If you’re available and interested, let me know if you see us as a good fit.
Thank you for your time,
[Your First Name]
You don’t need your whole life story. Clear, respectful, and specific beats trying to impress me.
What happens next
Once you send your email, here’s the flow:
- • If you seem like a fit, I’ll reply with next steps, confirm screening, and give you a clear rate based on what you’ve described.
- • If what you want is more involved, I may ask a few clarifying questions first so the rate actually matches it.
- • If I’m unavailable but like the fit, I’ll say so and either offer alternate dates or let you know I’d like to revisit later. Either way, you’re now on my shortlist.
- • If we’re moving forward, we’ll lock in the date, time, length, and any final details.
- • I’ll send a brief confirmation with any final logistics and deposit details.
- • A small, non-refundable deposit secures your booking; until it’s received, the date isn’t confirmed. The remaining balance is due in cash at the start of our time together.
- • If you don’t hear back, assume we’re not a match.
One thoughtful message is enough; if we’re a fit, you’ll hear from me.
About apps, DMs, and other platforms
Internal messaging systems (site inboxes, DMs, etc.) aren’t encrypted or truly private. They can be stored, scanned, or exposed later — including platforms like Rentmen.
Because of that, I don’t use internal messaging to handle bookings. You may see me there, but I expect you to move to email and follow this page.
After your initial email, if we’re a fit, we can move to another platform for logistics and follow-up. You’re welcome to suggest a secure option (Signal, Telegram, Session, ProtonMail, text, etc.), but I make the final call.
If this feels too structured, I’m probably not your guy. I’m drawn to men who follow instructions, communicate like adults, and enjoy the anticipation.
If you’ve read everything and still feel that pull, draft your message, take a breath, and send it.