Screening · Safety · Health
Simple, health-focused screening.
Before we lock in any date, you’ll go through a brief screening process. It’s straightforward and non-negotiable. If you can’t follow simple instructions or respect basic health boundaries, we’re not a match.
What I require
Once we’ve had an initial exchange and I’ve decided we might be a good fit, I’ll ask you for:
Recent STI / STD test results
You’ll send a clear screenshot or PDF of your most recent panel from a legitimate clinic or testing service. It needs to be current, not something from years ago.
You may redact anything that isn’t relevant, but the date, your name, and the results must be visible.
Ability to follow instructions
How you handle screening tells me a lot. If you ignore directions, play games, or try to negotiate the process, I won’t move forward.
If you’re serious, respectful, and can follow instructions, this will be quick and straightforward.
At my discretion
In some cases I may ask for more verification — especially for longer engagements or travel. That might include:
- LinkedIn profile or work website
- Social media
- A brief call or video check-in
- Light ID verification (e.g., driver’s license or passport with non-essential details redacted)
This is decided case by case, at my discretion. I only ask for what I actually need to feel safe. If that feels like too much for you, that’s okay — it just means we’re not a fit.
Why screening?
Screening is about safety, respect, and mutual health. I take my body and my well-being seriously, and I expect the same from anyone who wants to share space with me. It’s also about showing basic care for the wider community we’re part of.
If you’re genuinely interested in meeting, this won’t feel like a hurdle — it will feel like a sign you’re being handled with care, and more like a relief than a burden.