Read this before you ever email me.

Who I see

I see respectful, self-aware adults who understand discretion and follow instructions. I don’t discriminate based on body type, race, gender, sex, or experience level — I primarily see men, but women, non-binary people, and couples are welcome to reach out if the dynamic feels like a fit. What matters most is attitude.

• • You are at least 21 years old.
• • You are sober, grounded, and capable of making your own decisions.
• • You can communicate clearly, read instructions, and respect boundaries.
• • You are not booking on behalf of someone who has not seen this site.

Communication & booking

Read the Prices, Screening, and Etiquette pages before you email me. Your first message tells me a lot.

• • Introduce yourself with your name, age, and city.
• • Tell me what you’re looking for in clear sentences.
• • Include potential dates, times, and how many hours you want.
• • Don’t send one-word messages, explicit photos, or “u available?” messages.
• • I don’t respond to rude, demanding, or impatient messages.

Time, deposits, and cancellations

Treat bookings like any other professional appointment.

• • A deposit is required to secure any date, per the Prices page.
• • With sufficient notice, I may allow a reschedule at my discretion.
• • If I cancel, your deposit is moved or refunded. If it’s already gone to a non-refundable cost (like a hotel), we’ll talk it through and make it fair for both of us.
• • Chronic rescheduling, lateness, or flakiness means you may be banned for a time frame of my choosing.
• • If you’re banned, I may offer an option to end your ban through a donation.

Cleanliness & preparation

Show up like someone who respects himself and the person he’s meeting. This is non-negotiable.

• • Arrive freshly showered, with clean hair, nails, and breath.
• • Wear deodorant, but avoid overpowering cologne or body sprays.
• • If you’re coming from the gym, work, or a long day, shower first, unless we have discussed it prior.
• • If you are visibly unclean or heavily scented, I may end our time immediately.

Sobriety & safety

Safety comes first, for both of us.

• • You must arrive sober and clear-headed.
• • I do not meet if you are visibly intoxicated or under the influence of hard drugs.
• • I will not participate in anything that feels unsafe, disrespectful, or outside my limits.
• • I reserve the right to end any date immediately if I feel uncomfortable.

Discretion & respect

Discretion protects both of us. I keep your information private and expect the same in return.

• • Do not share my personal details, photos, or anything from our time together.
• • Recording, screenshots, or hidden cameras are strictly forbidden and result in a lifetime ban.
• • Do not talk about our arrangements with anyone who hasn’t consented to hearing it.
• • Any attempt to pressure, blackmail, or manipulate me ends all contact permanently.

Dominance, consent, and boundaries

Yes, I’m dominant. No, that doesn’t mean I ignore consent or basic respect.

• • You are allowed to have limits, boundaries, and a voice. I expect you to use it.
• • Any agreed-upon safeword will always be respected.
• • I enjoy control and power dynamics, not chaos or harm.
• • If you struggle with communication, say so up front so I can work with it.

Automatic dealbreakers

If any of the following apply, don’t contact me. If they show up later, I disappear.

• • Disrespect, name-calling, or entitlement.
• • Ignoring instructions or trying to bargain after agreements are made.
• • Lying about your age, relationship status, or who you are.
• • Any form of aggression, harassment, or boundary-pushing after I’ve said no.

If you’ve read this far and still feel drawn in, that’s a good sign. Head to the Prices and Screening pages next, then contact me when you’re ready to follow through.