How to behave when you’re in my orbit.

Contacting me

Your first message is your first impression. I prefer calm, direct, respectful communication — think email, not an app.

• • Use full sentences, not “u free?” or “?”.
• • Spell my name correctly and show that you’ve read this site.
• • Don’t send explicit photos in your first email.
• • Be honest about your experience level, nerves, or questions.

If your tone is rude, demanding, or chaotic, I won’t respond. How you talk to me tells me how you’ll act with me.

Day-of etiquette

Treat our date like any other important appointment.

• • Be on time. Early is better than late.
• • If you’re running behind for a real reason, let me know as soon as possible.
• • Arrive sober, freshly showered, with clean hair, nails, and breath.
• • Have the remaining balance ready in the agreed form at the start of our time.
• • Don’t arrive in an emotional crisis or blackout drunk.

During our time together

I bring intensity, presence, and control. Your job is to settle into what we discussed, speak up when needed, and let yourself enjoy it.

• • Respect my boundaries, pace, and decisions in the moment.
• • If I ask you a question, answer honestly and clearly.
• • If something doesn’t feel right, say so — I prefer clarity over guessing.
• • Phones stay away unless we’ve agreed on something specific.

Dominance doesn’t mean I ignore your limits. It means I take the lead within the container we’ve agreed to.

Language, respect, and identity

I’m here to explore power, not cruelty or prejudice. Keep things hot, not hateful.

• • Fantasy degradation or humiliation, if we explore it, will be discussed in advance.
• • You’re allowed to be nervous or awkward, I find it cute — just don’t be disrespectful.
• • If I correct you on something (a term, a boundary, a behavior), adjust without arguing.

Gifts, tips, and gratitude

None of this is required, but if you’re wondering what’s appreciated:

• • A simple “Thank you, I had an amazing time” goes a long way.
• • Tips are never expected, always appreciated.
• • Thoughtful, discreet gifts are welcome if they make sense for you.
• • If you truly had an amazing time, a positive review helps.

Aftercare & follow-up

Intense power dynamics can linger — that’s part of the fun and part of the care.

• • You’re welcome to send a brief follow-up message afterward.
• • If something sits wrong with you afterward, let me know.
• • If we both enjoyed ourselves and you behaved well, I’m more likely to see you again.

What not to do

Fastest ways to make sure we never meet — or never meet again:

• • Trying to haggle over rates or pressure me into “extras.”
• • Ignoring my Rules, Screening, or boundaries because you’re “different.”
• • Showing up intoxicated, unsafe, or clearly unprepared.
• • Being rude to staff, drivers, or anyone around us — including animals.

If this all feels obvious and easy, that’s a good sign. It means we can skip the nonsense and get to the fun part.

When you’re ready, head over to the Book Me page and introduce yourself.